Women only please.?

Erica, I'm sorry about your Mom. Having a baby and raising one are two different things and you don't want twins. I had twins, girls. It's very hard work, and you can forget about a good nights sleep for a while. When you are married, you and your husband will decide when the time and money situation are right. Rasing kids is very expensive,but very rewarding to watch the baby grow up. I think you could take some parenting lessons. I also love the name too.